Evidence-Based Positive Reinforcement
- Foundation: Based on positive reinforcement and operant conditioning
- Key Principle: Reward desired behaviors to increase their frequency
- Rewards: Use treats (chicken, freeze-dried liver), praise, toys, play
- Timing: Rewards must occur within seconds of the desired behavior
- Consistency: All family members must use the same commands and rules
❌ Never Use These Methods
- No physical punishment: Never hit, swat, or physically force your puppy
- No yelling: Creates fear and damages trust
- Don't use crate as punishment: It should be a safe, positive space
- Don't rub nose in accidents: Ineffective and cruel
- Avoid dominance-based training: Positive reinforcement works better
The Socialization Window (3-16 Weeks) cannot be recaptured!
Timeline
- Peak Period: 3-14 weeks
- Science: Puppies' brains are primed to accept new experiences as normal
- Window Closes: Around 14-16 weeks
- Research: 35% of behavior is genetic, 65% is socialization, training, and care
What to Socialize To
👥 People (100+ before 12 weeks)
- Men, women, children of all ages
- Different appearances — hats, sunglasses, uniforms, beards
- People with canes, walkers, wheelchairs
🏙️ Environments
- Different surfaces: grass, concrete, gravel, tile, carpet, sand
- Traffic, sirens, car rides
- Vet and groomer visits (with treats!)
🔊 Sounds
- Vacuum, blender, lawn mower
- Thunder, fireworks (low volume, gradually increase)
- Doorbells, phones, children playing
🐕 Other Dogs
- Puppies of similar age in supervised play
- Calm, friendly adult dogs
- Different breeds and sizes
Safe Socialization Before Full Vaccination
Risk of behavioral problems from poor socialization is GREATER than infectious disease risk.
- Only interact with healthy, vaccinated dogs you know
- Carry puppy in unknown areas (hardware stores, garden centers)
- Avoid dog parks until 16 weeks
⚠️ Signs of Stress
- Tucked tail, ears pulled back
- Excessive lip licking or yawning
- Shaking, trying to hide
- Whale eye (showing whites of eyes)
Recovery: Don't coddle — wait for calm, then reward calm behavior.
Timeline: Most puppies housetrained in 4-8 weeks of consistent training.
Bladder Rule: Age in months + 1 hour = max hold time (never more than 4-5 hrs daytime)
Schedule is Everything
Take puppy outside:
- First thing in the morning (immediately!)
- After every meal (within 10-20 minutes)
- After every nap and play session
- Before bedtime
- Every 1-2 hours for puppies under 12 weeks
- Any time they show signs they need to go
The Potty Spot Method
- Choose ONE specific outdoor area
- Always take puppy on leash to this spot
- Use consistent cue: "Go potty" or "Hurry up"
- Stand still and boring — don't play
- Wait patiently (may take 5-10 minutes)
- The instant they finish: high-value treats + enthusiastic praise!
- Then allow play time as additional reward
Accidents
Caught in the act:
- Clap to interrupt ("Uh-oh!")
- Immediately carry outside to potty spot
- If they finish outside, praise and treat
- Clean area thoroughly
Found an accident:
DO NOT punish. Clean with enzyme cleaner. Adjust schedule. Move on.
Puppies can't connect punishment to an accident even 5 minutes later.
Why Crate Train?
- House training: Dogs instinctively avoid soiling their den
- Safety: Prevents destructive behavior when unsupervised
- Travel: Required for air travel
- Vet care: Reduces stress during hospital stays
- Life skill: Creates a calm, safe retreat space
The Process
Phase 1: Introduction (Days 1-3)
- Place crate in family area
- Prop door open, let puppy explore freely
- Toss treats inside randomly throughout day
- Feed meals in crate with door open
- Never force puppy inside
Phase 2: Short Door Closures (Days 4-7)
- Close door for 5-10 seconds while treating
- Open before any whining starts
- Repeat 10-20 times daily
- Gradually extend to 1 minute
Phase 3: Longer Durations (Week 2)
- Give stuffed Kong or special chew
- Leave room briefly (30 sec to 5 min)
- Return before they finish
- Vary times: 2 min, 10 min, 5 min, 15 min
Crate Time Limits
| Age | Daytime Max |
|---|---|
| 8-10 weeks | 30-60 minutes |
| 11-14 weeks | 1-3 hours |
| 15-16 weeks | 3-4 hours |
| 17+ weeks | 4-5 hours (never 6+) |
Rule: Age in months + 1 hour = max crate time
Nighttime: Most puppies sleep 7 hours by 4 months
Why Puppies Bite
- Exploration: They explore with their mouths (like babies)
- Teething: Around 3-7 months, sore gums
- Play behavior: How they played with littermates
- Energy release: High energy needs outlet
- Attention-seeking: Even negative reactions are rewarding
Bite Inhibition
What: A dog's ability to control bite force
Why critical: Dogs in pain may bite — good inhibition means soft mouth, quick release
Goal: Teeth touch skin lightly, puppy immediately backs off
Anti-Biting Methods
Method 1: The Yelp
- High-pitched "OUCH!" when teeth touch skin
- Stop all play immediately
- Turn away, tuck hands
- Wait 10-20 seconds, resume calmly
Method 2: The Removal (Most Effective)
- Stand up, hands in armpits, face away
- Leave room for 30-60 seconds
- Return, resume play calmly
- Repeat every single time
Key: Consistency. Every person, every time.
Method 3: Redirect
- Keep chew toys in every room
- When puppy goes for hands, immediately offer toy
- Make toy exciting — wiggle it, make it "alive"
- Praise when they chew toy instead
Best Toys for Biters
- Rope toys, rubber chew toys (Kong)
- Frozen Kongs with peanut butter (soothes teething)
- Bully sticks, puppy-safe chew bones
Training Principles
- Sessions: 5-10 minutes max
- Frequency: 2-4 short sessions per day
- Energy: Train when alert but calm
- End on success: Always finish with something puppy knows
- Use food: Part of daily ration, no extra calories
The Essential Five
1. SIT — Foundation Command
- Hold treat at puppy's nose
- Move treat up and back over head
- Bottom drops — instant "YES!" + treat
- Repeat 10-15 times
- Add word "SIT" just before they do it
- Gradually reduce hand motion
2. DOWN — Calm Behavior
Creates calm state, prevents jumping, settles puppy
3. STAY — Impulse Control
Safety at doors and streets, real-world necessity
4. COME (Recall) — Lifesaving
Critical Rules:
- Never call for something unpleasant (bath, nail trim)
- Coming to you must ALWAYS = amazing things
- Never punish a puppy who comes when called
5. LEAVE IT — Safety
Prevents eating dangerous items, builds impulse control
Weaning Off Treats
- Start with treat every time
- Move to variable schedule — sometimes treat, sometimes praise
- Like a slot machine — very effective!
- Always use treats for challenging situations
- Never eliminate praise and petting
Sample Schedule (8-12 Week Puppy)
Key Principles
- Puppies need 16-18 hours of sleep per day
- Enforce naps (prevents overtired bitey puppy!)
- Potty breaks every 1-2 hours while awake
- Training sessions very short (5-10 min)
- Mix mental and physical stimulation
🧠 Mental Stimulation
Tired puppy = well-behaved puppy. Mental exercise tires them faster than physical.
- Puzzle feeders, stuffed Kongs
- Sniffing games (hide treats around room)
- Training sessions (learning is tiring!)
- Toy rotation, frozen treats
- Cardboard boxes to shred (supervised)
- Snuffle mats
Veterinary Care
- First vet visit: Within 48 hours of bringing puppy home
- Vaccinations: Typically 8, 12, 16 weeks
- Spay/neuter: Discuss timing with vet (usually 6 months)
🚨 Call Vet Immediately
- Vomiting/diarrhea (especially with blood)
- Refusal to eat for 24 hours
- Lethargy or dramatic behavior change
- Difficulty breathing
- Suspected poisoning
- Repeated accidents despite training (could be UTI)
🍎 Nutrition
- High-quality puppy food: AAFCO certified
- Consistent feeding times: 3-4 times daily
- No people food: Prevents begging, some foods toxic
- Always available water: Except 2-3 hrs before bed during house training
☠️ Dangerous Items
| Toxic Foods | Household Dangers |
|---|---|
| Chocolate, caffeine Grapes/raisins Onions/garlic Xylitol Alcohol Macadamia nuts |
Electrical cords Cleaning products Medications Small objects (choking) Toxic plants |
✅ Normal Puppy Behavior
- Play biting and mouthing
- Jumping on people, chewing
- Short attention span
- Some accidents during house training
- Mild fear of new things
⚠️ Seek Professional Help If:
- Aggressive behavior (hard bites drawing blood)
- Severe separation anxiety despite training
- Extreme fear or panic
- Resource guarding with aggression
- Still biting hard by 6 months
- Not making progress despite consistent training
Finding Qualified Help
- CPDT-KA — Certified Professional Dog Trainer
- KPA CTP — Karen Pryor Academy Certified
- IAABC — Animal Behavior Consultants
- Force-free, positive reinforcement methods only
Weekly Training Priorities
| Weeks | Priority Focus |
|---|---|
| 8-12 | Socialization, house training, crate training, bite inhibition, name recognition, basic "sit" |
| 12-16 | Continue socialization (window closes!), solidify house training, sit/down/come, leash intro, polite greetings |
| 16+ | Maintain socialization, refine commands, add distractions, loose leash walking, impulse control |